Relationships in general are already complicated, so imagine sharing your life with other people? Many relationships wear out over time and there are others that don’t take long to wear out. Before trying to save this relationship, both must agree that they will fight for this love, as there is no point in just one person making an effort and the other not giving, THAT IS NOT LOVE! Let’s assume that both are willing to improve the relationship.
How to do this?
I used the magic of dialogue, I believe that there is no relationship without conversation, it hurt me, I am hurt, let’s talk, talk about everything and any small detail, when I say talk I’m talking about listening to be heard and giving your opinion without judgment and that’s how I get to a consensus. If you do this, you will eliminate several problems.
Affection and words of affection, not everyone likes to spend 24 hours glued to another person, but sometimes affection is good. Words of affection include words of respect, compliments, showing the person in words how wonderful they are. Taking a trip together, think about the eighth wonder of the world, it is traveling with your partner, if financially it is not the time, go to a restaurant, a restaurant is out of your situation, have dinner, have dinner together. Invest time in quality moments with your partner, avoid using a screen while you are together, focus your attention on the wonderful person next to you. Solve any problem together, don’t hide anything from your partner, you should both share the same thoughts.
Forget pride and selfishness. If you don’t have the humility to share and the solidarity to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, this won’t work, you need to understand that you are in this together and not competing with each other.
Good luck
